Forget Fitting In. This Is Your Invitation for the Plus Side of Love.
You’ve outgrown the PEOPLE and spaces that were never meant to hold you. Here at The Plus Side of Love, we have a seat for you at the table where FLUFFY BLACK WOMEN boldly take control of reclaiming their love and rewrite their own lasting love story with main character energy.
Ready to Indulge?
Stay right here fluffy sister, get connected and savor the pleasure of FINALLY choosing yourself first and that includes the best of BLISS!
Behind Every Curve is a Hell of a Story
When my husband walked out on me in the middle of the night while I was sleeping, everything I thought I had built crumbled in an instant. As a successful matchmaker for plus-size women of color, I had spent years helping others find love, but suddenly I found myself grappling with the deepest insecurities of being too much and not enough at the same time. I moved to Rosarito Mexico to hide and live a quiet peaceful life. You know they say God laughs at our plans because what happened next is still blowing my mind.
I became a psychotherapist, got into a doctoral program for clinical psychology and went on a personal BLISS Bounce Back Behavior Transformation—a methodology I designed to help women like us you know the fluffy black woman, reinvent our lives after devastating life setbacks and learn to date with dignity marriage minded men.
I AM Nekisha Michelle, The Ready Woman and welcome to my space The Plus Side of Love where we learn to experience Love at Every Curve that life sends our way. When you work with me you will get a blend of my expertise as a matchmaker, psychotherapist, spiritual guide, and your best new girlfriend.
Launching January 26, 2026
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Soulful Consultations & Coaching
This is a focused, deep-dive session designed to help you understand what’s really been getting in the way of the love you desire. Using a series of guided tools and assessments, we identify patterns, blocks, and barriers that influence your dating choices, attachment, boundaries, and self-trust. You’ll walk away with clarity—not confusion—along with insight into your relationship patterns and a grounded understanding of what needs to shift so you can date with discernment, confidence, and dignity.
Life Redesign Coaching is for the moment you decide you’re done living in what used to be. Whether you’re releasing a past relationship, a job, or an old version of yourself, this coaching helps you make a clean emotional break and move forward with intention. Together, we dismantle outdated attachments, strengthen boundaries, and create a clear path toward bliss, fulfillment, and alignment. This is not about grieving the past—it’s about building the life that matches who you are becoming. This package includes bi-weekly coaching sessions for 6 months and one personal luxury retreat weekend in beautiful Rosarito Mexico.
Make Me a Wife™ is a tailored, year-long experience for women who are ready to move from tolerated to celebrated—in love and in life. This program blends Life Redesign Coaching, Dating With Dignity, and intentional matchmaking to support a complete transformation of mindset, standards, and relationship readiness.
Over twelve months, you’ll release old patterns, strengthen boundaries, and align your life with the kind of love you desire. The experience includes guided online dating support, private introductions to up to five vetted men, and unlimited access to your matchmaker for real-time guidance and discernment.
At the heart of the journey is a 4-night, 5-day intensive retreat, designed to recalibrate your mind, body, wardrobe, and soul—because lasting love requires alignment on every level. You’ll also receive relationship-strengthening sessions to support healthy attachment, communication, and long-term happiness once love is found.
This is the exact tailored process Nekisha used to find love and become engaged—twice—within twelve months.
This isn’t about chasing marriage. It’s becoming a woman who is chosen, cherished, and sustained in love.
